Ever heard of the "Ten Little Indians" counting song? Yeah, not okay. Use an animal instead.
Sitting "Indian style" on the floor is not okay. Sit on your pockets or criss-cross applesauce.
I is for Indian and E is for Eskimo. I can think of 109 other things that start with I and E.
Children making and wearing feathered headbands out of construction paper is not okay. I know, you see it at almost every school, but this implies that Indians "dress up" or wear costumes. That isn't the case. Costumes are worn when you pretend to be someone else. The clothing (even headpieces) Indians wear can be for religious or ceremonial purposes - not for pretending. Same thing goes for chest plates and arm cuffs.
Children (and adults) painting their face. Markings on the face can mean a multitude of things depending on the tribe. Again, this is not part of a costume.
The Indians didn't exactly "give gifts" to the Pilgrims. No need to make this an activity.
Like all multicultural literature, Native American literature should be authentic and accurate. We shouldn't put all Indians into one category. Tribes and their people are not all alike. Not all Indians lived in tee-pees. Not all Indians have long hair. Not all Indians painted their faces and wore feathers. When reading books with Indian characters, look to see if there is a variety in skin tone like you see with other types of people. Some tribes were/are matriarchal. Look to see if women have a role in the story - you know, besides cooking or nursing children.
Not all stereotypes are negative. Even good stereotypes (all Asians are smart) have no place in authentic multicultural literature. Not all Native Americans are "one with the Earth" or deep, spiritual people. When reading about Indians, see if the author uses this hook with no end in sight.
Thank you for listening to my rant! There are many wonderful activities and lessons that teach youth about Native Americans of the past and present. Quality resources can be found at your library and all over the web. In addition, there are many wonderful contemporary Native American books out there. Not every story with an Indian needs to take place during the 1800s. Indians are alive and well today! Find stories with contemporary Indian characters.
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